Women are constantly complaining that their man doesn’t propose. That ‘he’s the one’ for them but he doesn’t want to commit.
That he’s the one for them but they break up and suddenly he’s found someone else and now they’re getting married or having a kid and why didn’t and couldn’t he do that with me?
Well I'm here to tell you why.
Just because YOU think he’s the one, doesn’t mean HE thinks YOU are the one.
Women don’t seem to get, in 2014, men also have feelings and thoughts even though they don’t express them the way women do.
Men, just as women do, have the right to decide if a relationship is not working for them and have the right to leave that relationship.
Men, as women do, have the right to decide if someone is ‘the one’, and if they don’t believe they are, have the right to leave that person.
Men, as women do, have the right to decide to fall in love with someone else and leave the person they are with.
Women don’t seem to get that men have the same rights and decisions as them. I have found that females in their 20s and 30s are very controlling control freaks who seem to think that men must do what they say and do everything for them. They don’t. Men have their own brain, regardless of how much they use it, and have the right to make life changing decisions.
Men have the right to happiness with the person they believe is the one for them, and if that ain’t you then get the fuck over it.
Just because YOU believe he’s the one, doesn’t mean he is, or that he feels the same way. Men don’t have to think or feel the same way as you, stop trying to control them and let them speak their mind and do what they want. They have the right to leave you for someone they feel compatible with just as you do.
So, do you get it yet?
Just because YOU think he’s the one, doesn’t mean he feels the same way about you.