Monday, May 30, 2011

The Canadian couple keeping their baby's gender a secret, all for some ridiculous dumb arse experiment.

So I was going to vlog about this but on Saturday my computer told me there was no webcam on my pc so I had to fix it and so no vlog.

But here's my bitch.

The Canadian couple, Kathy Witterick, and David Stocker, who live in Toronto, believe that a child's sex should not determine his or her place in the world.

What a fucking crock of shit!

First off, I get it if the ONLY reason was so that the people around them didn't go into hysterics at whether it was a boy or girl and start buying blue shit and robots for a boy and pink shit and dolls for a girl, but it would seem that's not it.

The parents say that it will be up to Storm to decide whether he or she decides to live as a boy or girl but their plan has led to them being labelled the "world's most PC parents".

THAT IS FUCKING BULLSHIT!!!!!

Your gender is decreed in the womb as to the gender you will be. A penis = boy, a vagina = girl. That's DNA, that's the chromosomes, that's just the fucking way it is.

Come on people, are you fucking kidding me?????

Gender is the be all and end all. You are born the sex you are meant to be.

As for the transgenders etc out the and morons like Chastity Bono, believing God made a mistake is absolute bullshit and means you have serious mental issues. Or, you were the oppostie sex in your last life and think you still need to be that sex. Either way, GOD DID NOT MAKE A MISTAKE AND THAT'S JUST YOUR FUCKING EXCUSE FOR BEING A MORON.

As for this couple, they are idiots. Their two older sons, Jazz and Kio are obviously boys, but their hair leaves a lot to be desired. Seriously, boys do not have long hair these days. Be a man and grow up.

The parents have been accused of doing this as an experiment..

They say that they are striking a blow against the gender stereotypes that order society, which they believe begin as soon as parents pick out blue or pink romper suits. "When the baby comes out, even the people who love you the most and know you so intimately, the first question they ask is: 'Is it a girl or a boy?'," Ms Witterick, a housewife, said. Mr Stocker, a teacher, told The Toronto Star: "If you really want to get to know someone, you don't ask what's between their legs."

THAT'S ALSO FUCKING BULLSHIT!!!!!

Of course you're going to ask if it's a boy or a girl, what do you want people to ask, is it alien, animal, mineral?

Seriously people, stop being fucking morons.

Storm's grandparents have been supportive, but some friends have accused the couple of imposing their values on a newborn.

Others have criticised Storm's parents for setting up their child for a life of bullying and notoriety. "These parents are turning their children into a bizarre lab experiment," one reader wrote to The Toronto Star.


"For most people, gender is bedrock. When two parents challenge that bedrock, as Storm's parents have, it makes everyone anxious," said Diane Ehrensaft, a California-based psychologist and a specialist on gender roles.

They believe in "unschooling"; a variation of home schooling in which a child is allowed to decide what he or she learns. The entire family sleeps on two mattresses pushed together on the floor and their young sons decide when to cut their hair and which clothes to wear each day.

Jazz recently donned a pink dress, which he said he loved because it "really poofs out at the bottom" and "feels so nice". He wears his hair long and his favourite colour is pink. Kio prefers purple. Most strangers assume that the boys are girls - but Jazz was recently shunned at a playground by two girls who said that they did not want to play with the "girl-boy".


Yeah.....DUH!!!!!!!!

What did the parents expect? Seriously? I don't mind letting the kids decide certain things as long as it's a good decision. But making them look like girls when they're boys is risking serious issues for them later on.

Not to mention the ridicule the boys are already getting. If little girls don't want to play with the "girl-boy" then that should tell the parents straight up that what they are doing is wrong.

I believe you should be the sex you are in this lifetime and learn to deal with whatever issues you are going through (Chas Bono). Stop blaming an imaginary person (God) for making a mistake. NOTHING IS A MISTAKE! You are what you are meant to be. Boy, girl, it is the way it is and you need to grow a brain and deal with it.

As for imposing this stupidity on babies and children, the parents need to be shot and have child services on their backs. Who knows, maybe that's the trouble they've just invited.

Jewels xxoo

Friday, May 27, 2011

Ah....the Glass Ceiling. Women CAN have it all, just not at the same time.

Unless you're born a millionaire and don't need to work and have the luxury to buy a house and pop a few kids out and have a happy life.

Most of us don't have that luxury.

People bang on about the glass ceiling and how it's holding women back.

But is it?

I think it's more the sexist boys club. The males already in positions of power who prevent women from moving up the ladder.

Then there's the women who think they can have it all AT THE SAME TIME.

I believe there's only one way to have everything at the same time, and that's by planning each part of your life and doing one at a time.

"What do you mean?" you ask.

I mean, plan to buy a house, then plan to fill it with children.

Or, plan to succeed in business to buy the house and then once you're set have the kids.

So many couples, especially the women, want everything at the same time. The wedding, the house, the kids. Never once stopping to think they cannot financially afford every bloody thing at the same time.

And part of the glass ceiling is believing you can have it all at the same time.

That's only when you've planned and crossed each bridge when you've come to it.

I believe you can only have it all when you're NOT in financial debt, when you're health is good, the house is paid off, the kids are good and you're doing well at work.

If you run your own company it's even better. You're the CEO, you don't have to answer to anyone else, you can establish the business to success, pay off your house, afford the kids and have an annual holiday.

If you start off your adult life trying to get into your job or set up a business, paying off a mortgage, popping out a few kids, struggling to pay off the debts that are banging on your door then no, you cannot have it all.

So pull your fucking head out of your arse and get over yourself. Unless you are already established in business or your job, you cannot have kids, a mortgage and an annual holiday.

It's impossible to have it all at the same time and you need to set a plan. Stop blaming the glass ceiling, it doesn't exist. If you don't like your current employment, then start your own company so you can run it your own way. Stop expecting to have it all at the same time and then blaming something else when the debt gets on top of you.

It's not the glass ceiling holding you back. It's you!

Jewels xxo

Monday, May 23, 2011

WINNING LOTTO!!!!! What would you do?

It’s the one thing most of us dream about. It’s the one thing we’d all love to achieve. It’s the premise for one of my books.

But is money really the evil that people claim it is?

No!

Money is not the root of all evil. Having money is not the root of all evil. Having no plan is the root of all evil.

I spoke about this on one of my vlogs recently. Millionaire lotto winners and what they do with their money. Some are sensible. They get an account or financial advisor. Leave it in the bank till they figure out what to do with it. Write down a list of things they want or need.

Others madly spend, give to all the leeches who come out of the woodwork, charities who stick their hands out, relatives and so called friends they’ve never met, and those they’ve met only briefly. And then when their world goes to shit, what do they blame….The money!

That’s right, not themselves, the money.

The one thing that makes no choices. The one thing that makes no decisions about what it will be spent on or squandered on. The one thing that is not to blame in the whole scenario.

The only thing and person/people to blame for squandering millions is the person doing the squandering.

The main thing you need is a plan. And do people have one? No!

It’s all well and good to dream of winning lotto and what you’ll do with it. But it’s another to actually win lotto and put that plan into motion.

The important thing is to put yourself first and everyone else a distance second. If you have underage children, support them and pay for school etc which is your job anyway. If you have adult children, tell them to get their own money.

If there’s place you want to go and things you want to do, go there, do them.

It all comes down to the issue of having a set plan BEFORE you win lotto.

1 – Pay off the mortgage or buy a new house.

Check!

2 – Go on a holiday to places I want to go.

Check!

3 – Pay for my children’s school, or grandchildren’s education/trust fund.

Check!

4 – Set myself up in the place I want to live, set up a business, try new things.

Check!

5 – Don’t let all the leeches I do and don’t know suck all of my money out of me.

Check!

So there it is.

A plan that you need when you win lotto.

The money is not evil. It’s just plastic coated paper and has no feelings, value, thoughts or words.

It’s you!

It’s you who screws up your own life by squandering those millions and blaming everyone but yourself.

You!

So get your shit together and set a plan now.

You never know.

One day it just might be you.

Jewels xxoo

Friday, May 20, 2011

Ah, Gen Y girls who think the be all and end all of life is trapping an unwilling man into marriage.

Gen Y and Gen X girls are divided into two groups essentially.

Those who want a life, job, career, travel, a house etc, and those who just want to get married and have kids.

But there’s a problem with that.

I assume that there will always be females in their twenties, regardless of what generation they belong to, who only want to get married and have kids.

This generation is Gen Y.

And it’s pissing annoying.

Why?

They’re ungrateful little twats that’s why!

I cannot stand 20 something girls who whinge and whine about either finding a man to marry or that the man they are with doesn’t want to get married.

WHO FRIGGING CARES!!!!!

Your twenties are a decade to learn about yourself. Not tie yourself down with a house and kids. And seriously, most men in their twenties don’t want to get married.

Why?

Because they want to live life and have relationships!

Just because a guy is with you, doesn’t mean you are the one he wants to marry. He may just want to have several relationships in his life with a variety of women to see what sort HE wants to settle down with.

Seriously girls, and I call you that because you act like children, grow a fucking brain and grow up. Why the fuck do you want to throw your life away in your twenties? Why don’t you want to date several guys yourself and see how many sorts there are out there. Just because a guy seems perfect doesn’t mean he’s the one you should, could, would marry.

Stop being control freak bitches all the fucking time. Stop trying to tell men that it’s your way or the highway. Stop trying to tell men when they should get married and how it should be to you. Because let me tell ya children, he will run a mile.

I’m so sick of whining girls all the fucking time whinging about how their guy hasn’t popped the question. Let me tell you bitches, YOU may not be the one HE wants. That’s probably why he hasn’t popped the question.

He’s not sure if the woman he wants to marry is a whiny twenty something who doesn’t want to have a life just wants kids.

Well you know what bitches, go and get yourself knocked up to some random guy if you want kids that desperately.

Stop trying to control and dictate to the men in your life because one day they will say ENOUGH!

And let me tell you this you ungrateful little bitches. This is 2011, marriage is only a law. The law does not dictate that you have to be faithful or loving to your partner. Marriage is a marriage of convenience for the government. You are essentially marrying the government so why the hell would you want to do that?

Be grateful that you even HAVE a man. That he loves you, and wants to be with you, to live a life or have kids or buy a house with you. Because that is WAY much more than a paper commitment. That is a man committing himself to you without the dumb arse legalities that come with it.

Marriage is not the be all and end all bitches. So pull your fucking heads out of your arses and grow a brain.

Be grateful you have a man who is amazing, if you’ve got one, and grow the fuck up. Because you could be a lonely, old spinster who’s all alone because YOU weren’t grateful for the man you had, if he’s such a catch then why the hell are you so keen to get rid of him with your bullshit talk of a dumb arse law that is marriage.

It’s 2011, get a fucking life AND STOP BEING CLINGY, NEEDY, USELESS PIECES OF CRAP!

Jewels xxoo

Monday, May 16, 2011

Women who get around with their tits hanging out. I say, "shove 'em back in bitches!

Beyonce once said "If you like this finger better put a ring on it."

Well, I’M telling you, "If ya stick ya tits out better put them back in!"

I am so fucking sick and tired of going to my local shopping areas and seeing hundreds of women with their tits out of their tops. The tops are low cut and the tits are shoved together or so large they’re hanging out.

I’m a woman, the only reason you hang your tits out is to appeal to men.

I don’t want to see it for fuck’s sake so stick your calf sucking tits back in your top bitches.

I am appalled by the amount of females who do this. I’m sick and tired of celebrities who think they have to do it. I am sick and tired of seeing my shops full of females who do it.

And don’t lie about WHY you do it. As I said, to appeal to men. You want men to look at your tits and either whistle, leer, comment or try and grope. That’s all there is to it. It’s true, you may as well write “LOOK AT ME” across your tits because that’s what you want men to do.

LOOK AT YOU!

Women only look at you and think “you gross skank arse cow, stick ya tits in”.

I’m also sick of seeing crotches flashed but tits seem to be the main one. Since tops are short, low cut, see through etc, there will always be women with too big a tits trying to squeeze them into too small a top and so the overhang could shelter a small third world nation from the rain.

IT’S RIDICULOUS FOR FUCK’S SAKE.

I DON’T WANT TO SEE YOUR FUCKING TITS!!!!!

And seriously, why do you want to. You’re face looks like shit that’s been steamrolled and then warmed up so is that why you stick your tits out? Because that’s the only thing derelict old men would be attracted too? Seriously before you make be sick to my stomach so that I have projectile vomit and diarrhea, stick them back in and stop bending over, cause that just makes it worse.

I don’t want to see what sort of bra you’ve got on. I don’t want to see what you had for breakfast. I don’t want to see anything PERIOD!

So shove your fucking tits back in your tops and stop flashing them like the street walking skank arse tarts you really are.

Jeez, I clearly need to move to a more affluent area.

Jewels xxoo

Monday, May 9, 2011

Lady GaGa's Monster Ball Tour on tv. Was it any good?

So last night here in Aus, channel 11 showed the HBO Lady Gaga tour on tv. I watched it since I love her music and while the costumes were weird the crowd was weirder.

I think the whole crowd was gay but the one thing that annoyed me, like so many other things, the good songs, my faves, were left to the last 20 minutes.

Papparazzi, Telephone, Bad Romance and her new one Born This Way was the show closer. I love it so turned the tv up loud. The costumes, as I said, were weird, she had a backing track but still sang live, danced strangely and talked too much. Swore her head off, believes she's the leader of monsters and generally spoke for too many people. Either way, glad I didn't waste my money and I won't be buying the dvd.


Jewels xxoo

Friday, May 6, 2011

To A Current Affair: How about doing a story on the thieving by the volunteers at the Salvo stores instead.

Last night on A Current Affair there was a story, AGAIN, about people who take from the pile of stuff outside of Goodwill and Salvation Army stores. Stores have video surveillance of people loading up BMWs and Range Rovers with bags of stuff and bits of furniture that other people have left for the store to be passed on to the needy.

However!!!!!

A Current Affair forgot to mention that volunteers at these stores take what they want themselves.

And while the show may have done a story or two on that and I do remember it, I know for a fact that goods delivered aren’t always put on shelves.

I’ve donated plenty of stuff over the years. One time, I handed over three big boxes of clothes, shoes, bags, and bit and pieces. The next week I went back, as I love shopping in op shops, and could only find a FEW pieces I had donated the week before.

There is no point the op shops bitching and whinging about people taking the things that are left on the footpath or outside of the shops and then taking things themselves.They’re all stealing the goods in some way shape or form so why bitch about something being taken that’s on the footpath?

And then it comes down to law. Does an article that has been dumped on a footpath or roadside qualify as anyone’s in particular?

Does it belong to the person who dumped it? The person who takes it? Or the person who runs the shop it was dumped outside of?

Who knows, but the hypocrisy is pathetic and it needs to stop. The law needs to be clearly acknowledged and the store needs to stop stealing as well.

Thieving little bastards!

Jewels xxoo
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