I came across this story from a Facebook link and read it in disgust - Rape Victim refuses to meet Daughter.
How dare that bitch, Elaine Penn (the adopted out daughter) criticise and insult her "birth mother" that way.
She clearly does not comprehend that she is a product of rape, an assault, a vicious invasion of her mother's body. No, she doesn't get that AT ALL!
All she wants is to meet her "birth mother", saying, upon being rejected, “It's infuriating. It's like, aren't you human? Don't you have any feeling, any compassion at all?"
Why should the woman who was raped and brutalised have anything to do with you? Why should the woman who was ostracised because she was a young girl, pregnant after being brutalised, want or need to see you.
Elaine Penn is a selfish, self-obsessed, self-absorbed woman who clearly only thinks about herself and what she wants. Completely ignoring the fact she is a product of rape, an assault on a young girl who happened to give birth to her, who was traumatized by the whole thing and has lived to forget it, she clearly believes her rights far outweigh her mother's.
Bitch! You selfish fucking bitch!
Who the fuck in hell do you think you are?
Her husband, Scott said, “It was horrible. My wife felt like a piece of trash.”
Well duh! She is the product of a vicious rape!
Elaine says she feels sorry for the woman who gave birth to her. “It's sad that there's such vileness and such hatred.”
WHAT THE FUCK DO YOU EXPECT?
Clearly you expected that you'd meet and you'd play happy families, completely over-riding the fact she was raped and violated and you are a product of that assault.
Fucking nut job she is, expecting and forcing something onto a woman who so clearly wants to forget what happened to her.
Who the fuck do you think you are, strolling in and demanding, DEMANDING that she see you?
Bitch, you need to grow a fucking brain because right now, you really ain't got one. Especially when you seem to be in denial that you are a product of rape and that your mother wants nothing to do with you because of it.
On a side note, this is not the first time I've read or seen stories like this. Many women in the 50s, 60s, 70s and even today, babies are born from rape and adopted out. Yet why, in this day and age of assaults on women and the coverage it gets through the press, and how the world (ie; men) need to change the way they think and see women, would you want to force the woman who was raped and violated so viciously to see you or have anything to do with you.
One woman even expected her birth mother to tell her all about her father and where he was. Bitch just DID NOT GET that her mother didn't want to see her as she had been raped and had that baby as a consequence.
WHY DO WOMEN NOT GET THEY ARE PRODUCTS OF RAPE AND THAT THE WOMAN WHO GAVE THEM UP FOR ADOPTION JUST DOESN'T WANT TO SEE THEM, OR HEAR FROM THEM, OR HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH THEM?
GROW FUCKING BRAINS FOR GOD'S SAKE!
IF IT HAPPENED TO YOU, WOULD YOU WANT CONTACT WITH THAT BABY?
I think not!
Unless you're from the whole, the baby had nothing to do with it line of bullshit, in which case you will forever have a physical reminder of the arsehole who violated you.
Why would you want that?